Let’s talk about something real…
Today’s kids from split families are often carrying the weight of adult pain they never created.
So many children become silent victims of parental manipulation, emotional pressure, or loyalty conflicts—not because their parents are bad people, but because their parents were never given the tools, support, or courage to truly co-parent from a place of healing.
When adults haven’t forgiven themselves or each other…
When they’re still stuck in old wounds they never learned how to process…
When they don’t know what they didn’t know…
- The cycle continues.
- The child becomes the battleground.
- The pain repeats across generations.
But it doesn’t have to.
We break cycles when we learn to take accountability for our healing.
We break cycles when we choose regulation over reaction.
We break cycles when we stop using our children as emotional armor and instead give them the safety we never had.
Healing isn’t about pretending it didn’t hurt.
It’s about refusing to let the hurt lead.
Our kids deserve parents who are brave enough to grow—
not perfect, just willing.
💚 If this resonates, I see you.
💬 What cycle are you committed to breaking?
#EarthRaeEmpowerment #BreakTheCycle #TraumaInformedParenting #GenerationalHealing #HealingStartsWithYou #CoParentingWithGrace #EarthRae